Kenneth Robert LaFon of Spring Hill, formerly of St. Petersburg, Florida lived a life of service and adventure. Born in Baltimore, Maryland on 15 September 1940, he was commissioned as an officer in the United States Air Force as an Aviation Cadet at Harlingen Air Station, Texas in 1961. It was there that he learned to love being in the air and flying. He began his aviation career as a navigator on C-37s flying missions over Vietnam with the 4th Air Commando Squadron, call sign "Spooky 32", supporting marines and Korean Special Forces. While he was away at a medical examination, his crew was lost over Vietnam and declared MIA. He never recovered from the loss of his crew and carried them with him until his last day.
Ken attended pilot training at Laredo AFB, Texas and created quite a stir. First when he attended a Civil Rights protest in Harlingen, Texas to bring his brother in law and civil rights leader, Demetrio (Danny) Lucio home at the request of his beloved mother in law, Juana Lucio. Unfortunately, in the confusion of the rally, they both ended up arrested by the Texas Rangers and it created a national stir to have an USAF officer in custody. Although Ken was a strong believer in the rights and dignity of all people, his priority was pilot training and his moment of fame was short lived at his and his command’s request. He was awarded the Commander’s Cup and created another controversy when he requested to be assigned to C-130 Search and Rescue (SAR) duty versus the more glamorous fighter planes. He spent the rest of his flying days helping his fallen comrades and teaching—a tribute to his crew. When his health required him to give up the flying he loved, he served as a Commander of the Security Police forces at Myrtle Beach AFB, SC and Clark AB, Philippines. He especially enjoyed working with the military K-9 handlers and dogs; it was a special stewardship to him to care for these very special dogs and personnel. Ken ended his Air Force Career at Little Rock AFB, Arkansas where he enjoyed helping the troops to unwind from the stresses of military life as a Morale, Welfare and Recreation Commander. Of his many Decorations and Medals these were included, Distinguished Flying Cross, Air Medal with 1 Silver Oak Leaf Cluster, Air Force Outstanding Unit Award with Valor Device and 1 Silver Oak Leaf Cluster, Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal with 1 Bronze Star and, Republic of Vietnam Gallantry Cross with Device.
Once retired, Ken continued his many adventures. During his Air Force career, he loved to hunt and fish and was known on many piers, hunting blinds and skeet shooting clubs as the "Colonel". He was quite a marksman and has many trophies and commendations to prove his skill including the Far East/Pacific Champion for small arms. Not content to participate in mainstream sports, he fished for shark off the coasts of South Carolina and Florida, hunted wild boar on the east coast and wild game in Texas and California. He didn’t keep his feet on the ground after leaving military flying, he built and flew his own ultra light aircraft and enjoyed the freedom he felt in the air. Of all his travels, his favorite trips were to the state of Alaska and he raved about its natural beauty until the end.
After retiring, Ken still served his community as a math teacher at Shorecrest Private Academy. He enjoyed helping young minds to open up to the world of academia and was admired by his students. He also worked as a pit boss at Seminole casino and found the games invigorating. Ken was a complicated man with many gifts. Ken had a keen, analytical mind and enjoyed playing poker all through his life. From Vietnam to every assignment and retirement, there was always a deck of cards at the ready—"never leave home without your kicker."
He is preceded in death by his loving father, Kenneth Albert LaFon and is survived by his devoted mother, Enola Carol LaFon, his loving sister Elizabeth L. Flack Hoffman and her husband Les Hoffman and his caring wife Phyllis VanDenBurg LaFon (Flip), all of Florida. They were with him daily in his battle with cancer and he loved them deeply. Ken also leaves behind a large adoring clan of children, grandchildren, and a great grandson, as well as, nieces and nephews who loved and admired him. His surviving children and their families are daughters, Michelle LaFon W. Robertson (Mike) and her husband Gordon Robertson along with their four children, Alison Jay Robertson, William Buck Waldrop, III, Thomas Richard Robertson, and Elizabeth Victoria Robertson, all of Hampton, Virginia; JoAnn LaFon Wechter (Jo) and Brady Fisher and their children, Nicole Soledad Wechter and her son (his great grandson) Hunter Michael Wechter, Maria Kathleen Wechter, Morgan Paige Fisher, Kalyn Leigh Fisher and Dayton Allan Fisher, all of Safety Harbor, Florida; and his daughters’ mother Maria Soledad Lucio LaFon (Chole’), Florida; his son, who he was so proud of Robert Richards LaFon and his mother Milagros Tating LaFon of Florida; his stepchildren, Vicki VanDenBurg, John VanDenBurg, and Joe VanDenBurg; his step grandchildren Heather, Johnny, Miriah, Joey and Sarah all of whom were great support to both their mother, Phyllis and Ken.
Ken’s two year battle with cancer was particularly difficult and he and Phyllis were very grateful for the loving support of many medical professionals and family. Noteworthy to them both, was the support of Manuel (Meme) and Gloria Beccerra and Catarino (Rod) and Ramona (Moni) Rodrigues all of San Benito, Texas, Victoria Irma Gibbs, Rachel Alvarez (Squirrel) and Enrique Torres (Kito) all of Aurora, Illinois. Their phone calls of love were most precious to him.
Kenneth was baptized on 29 October 2008 and found peace that day as he joined his fallen crewmembers. He will be buried with military honors at a ceremony on Friday, 7 November 2008 at 2:30pm at the Florida National Cemetery. Condolences and flowers may be sent to the family through the Veterans Funeral Care, 15381 Roosevelt Blvd, Clearwater, Florida 33760.
Flip, Certainly by now much I cared and prayed for Ken and you. God saw it all differently than we would have liked. Ken is out of pain and soaring with the angels. If you walk toward the sunshine and think of the time you had together, and you won’t see the shadows. God bless you. Karen
Flip………I have been with you right from the very beginning of Ken’s cancer and I know what the 2 of you have gone through. As my mini says…..Ken now has his wings. Please be happy for him as he is with the Lord and not suffering any longer. It was a very long battle along with all of the complications. I am a phone call away. God Bless us all..Amen…Love…Ally
Aunt Flip,
May our love comfort you during this time. Love and Prayers, Kimmie, Barb, and Family
Flip, May you have good memories of the happy times you have had with Ken, celebrate his life,,prayers are with you.
Peggi
Flip,
So sorry to hear about your loss of your beloved husband, Ken. I’ll keep you in my prayers.
Darlene
MM#2
Ken is in the best place ever. Now is the time for healing for you.
Love and prayers, DD#2
You were loved and will be missed
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
May God bless your family with peace and fond memories at this time of loss.
M,
You father was a great man and Iam sure that you will miss him greatly. May g-d bless you and your family. We love you-Your secretary Dale
May the Lord keep you all close during this difficult time.
You must all be very proud of the wonderful, patriotic legacy your father leaves his loved ones. Our thoughts of sympathy are with you all, during this most difficult time.
Michelle and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you.
Someone so special…
…can never be forgotten.
Thinking of You with Sympathy
Deepest sympathy to Michelle and family in this time of sorrow
Michelle and family,
May the good memories of your loved one live on within you..as a source of strength, love and inspiration.
Sincerly,
Judy Ready
Michelle and Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you during this difficult time.
Deepest sympathies – Love, Beth
Michelle,
Your family remains in my thoughts and prayers.
love, sheila
Flip,
My prayers are with you and your family. I know this must be very hard for all of you. Just remember all the good times all of you had with Ken. Know that he is with God and at peace.
Connie
KEN,
REST IN PEACE. MAY THE CARDS ALWAYS BE IN YOUR FAVOR.
Michelle, Your father sounds like a wonderful, dynamic man whose loss will be deeply felt. He must have been proud of your special independence and love of life. I know you and your family will find comfort in your memories of him. We’re all thinking of you. Lynn
Michelle,
You have my deepest sympathies. May the lord bless you and keep you.
Sincerely,
Laura Carlson
I love you so much grandpa, u were the best! Thank u for everything u did for me when i was growin up.
Rest in Peace. You are dearly missed by your family and loved ones.
God Bless you all and be strong I know how hard it is to lose a loved one.
With our sincere sympathy. Hold on to the good memories and he will live on in your hearts.
With love,
Helen and Bob
My condolences to the family. May God’s peace comfort you to know that he is in a good place, well loved, and cared for. Love Megan
We just want to express our deepest condolences to all the family. Our prayers are with you all! God Bless You!
TO OUR FAMILY MIKKIE, JOANN, AND FAMILY SORRY WE CAN NOT ATTEND BUT WE WILL CHERISH THE LAST VISIT WE HAD WITH UNCLE KEN LAST MAY. GOD BLESS TO ALL AMOR ETERNO!!!!
Michelle, I am sadden by your loss and will keep you in my prayers. In time, you will most remember the wonderful moments you shared with your father and those memories will comfort you. I never met him in person but the fact that he produced a daughter as wonderful as you, speaks volumes. God Bless You.
Mike and Joann,
You are all in our thoughts and
prayers. “”Memories””, you will have these for the rest of your lives- any nobody can ever take those away. Our deepest sympathy to all of you. ImeldaMellie,Jim and Ian Klespitz
Aunt Chole, Michelle, JoAnn and families, may The Lord bless you and give you strength and comfort during this difficult time of sorrow. Our Lord Almighty has a plan for us to one day reunite with Him and all our loved ones. Our sincere sympathy to all of you from the Torres family.
REST IN PEACE
Dear Michelle,
Please accept my condolences on the loss of your Dad. I know how hard it must be for you and your family. Your father stood up for his beliefs and his life made a difference. Remember that you are an extension of his spirit in all the good you do. Have a safe trip home to Virginia. We need you here. Kathleen
Joann,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you and you’re family are in our prayers. Although we have never met your father, he sounds like such an amazing man!! Our deepest condolences.
Dear Phyllis,
My most heartfelt thoughts and deepest sympathy goes out to you at this time! I think of the love that Ken and you shared and seeing the two of you together and I think how wonderful life would be if we all just a little bit of that in our lives!! I hope you can find the comfort and strength to get you through the days a head! Love Always!
Susie
Michelle,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know, that your father is with our Heavenly Father and is resting in peace…free from the pains and cares of this world. Because to be absent in the body is to be present with the Lord. May the love, grace and mercy of God wrap his arms around you and your family to comfort and strengthen you. My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family.
Always,
Mikie,JoAnne,Aunt Chole and family,
My heart breaks for your loss but rejoices in knowing that Uncle Ken no longer suffers and is in the kingdom of God. Even though I am not there I wrap my arms around you with the love and strength you need to mourn your loss. I will pray for Uncle Ken and you. I am sorry that I can not be there to pay my respects to a great man, but I am there in spirit. I love you!
I would like to express my heartfelt sympathy to the family. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Terri Patterson
Carol,Betty,Les
No words can express your loss of a Son and Brother. I am glad I got to meet Bob. All the family will be in my prayers.
Lois Hammers
mIKIE,jO YOU BOTH ARE IN OUR PRAYERS AND SENTING LOVE AND BLESSING TO YOUR FAMILES IN TIME OF SORROW.MY UNCLE IS IN HAVEN,HE IS THE BEST PATRIONTIC PERSON .HE LOVE HIS COUNTRY SO MUCH.HE WAS SO DEAR TO ME AND MY FAMILY WE LOVE HIM DEARLY HE WILL BE MISSED.REST IN PEACE DEAR UNCLE.LOVE RACHEL,ERNIE AND ERN
CAROL AND BETTY
MY LOVE AND THOUGHS ARE WITH YOU TWO WITH THE LOSS OF YOUR GREATEST SON AND BROTHER,UNCLE KEN IS DEEPLY LOVE BY OUR FAMILIES AND WILL BE MISSED DEARLY.HE WAS MY HERO.
LOVE RACHEL,ERNIE AND OUR SON ERN.
missing you…love, Mike