Virginia P. Heffley, 73, of Clearwater, Florida, died on Wednesday, November 25, 2009 at Hospice House Woodside in Pinellas Park, FL. She was born in Dayton, Ohio on July 28, 1936, the daughter of the late William and Hazel Whitescarver Aunspaw, and attended Northridge High School. Virginia later moved to San Diego, CA for over twenty years where she was employed as a mobile home manager. She moved to Clearwater in 2004, and had volunteered for Suncoast Hospice as a homemaker/care provider. She was a friend to many and will be greatly missed.
She is survived by two daughters: Melody Belcher, and her husband, Leonard, of Clearwater, FL, and Robin Patchett, and her husband, Bill, of Safety Harbor, FL; four sons: Rick Bragg of Dayton, OH, Terry Bragg of Lorain, OH, Doug Bragg, and his wife, Alexis, of Lakewood, OH, and Kenny Bragg, and his wife, Kris, of Gulfport, FL; three sisters: Alice Faulkner, Carolyn McCausland-Barrett, and Dawn Jones; seven grandchildren: Tammy Smith, Tracy Hall, Brandon Bragg, Jeremy Lees, Jessica Lees, Christina Voies, and Melody Sanders; eight great-grandchildren: Morgan Smith, Jacob Smith, Sarah Brello, Joshua Hall, Isaac Hall, Jonathan Bragg, Bryanna Voies, and Elinor Lees.
Memorial services will be held from Hospice Woodside Chapel on Monday, November 30, 2009 at 6pm, and interment will be at Ft. Rosecrans National Cemetery in San Diego, CA with her late husband, Charles Heffley.
I worked with Virginia at Suncoast Hospice thrift store in St Pete and enjoyed the times she was there She was a great person and so much fun to be around She will be missed by many
Virginia was a very good friend to me and we would talked for hours at times about our families. She really love, appreciated, and very proud of her family very much. Virgina would say number of times how they are there for her during this illness.
I’ll miss her smiling face and love as a sister in Christ.
grandma you will be truly missed..not a day goes by that your not in my heart..i hope youll be watchin down on my on monday when i talk at your funeral and i hope youll be proud of me..just watch over everyone and guide us threw light..i love you grandma and misss you soo much
GRANDMA IT GETS HARDER AND HARDER EVERY DAY TO KNOW THAT YOUR NOT COMING BACK.IT STILL FEELS LIKE ITS ALL A DREAM AND THAT YOUR STILL HERE.I ASK MY SELF EVERYDAY WHY DID YOU HAVE TO GO YOU STILL HAD SO MUCH MORE TO SEE.I NEEDED YOU FOR MANY MANY MANY YEARS BUT JUST ONE DAY YOU WERE GONE LIKE THAT..I KNOW THAT YOUR IN A BETTER PLACE AND THAT YOUR NOT IN PAIN ANYMORE..I MISS U MORE AND MORE EVERYDAY I LOVE U GRANDMA..BE MY ANGEL
so wow christmas is 3 days away and i truly dont know how im going to get threw it without you..life just seems to be getting crazier and crazier without you here..pleas when your looking down on us help us cause we neeed it bad..but its crazy how only a month has gone by it feels like a lifetime without you here grandma..you know i think about you every single min of the day..it still feels like a nightmare..now all i have is pictures and that just makes it even harder to know im not going to get your hugs or kisses anymore or anything..but youll always remain in my heart..i love you grandma..
so wow christmas is 3 days away and i truly dont know how im going to get threw it without you..life just seems to be getting crazier and crazier without you here..pleas when your looking down on us help us cause we neeed it bad..but its crazy how only a month has gone by it feels like a lifetime without you here grandma..you know i think about you every single min of the day..it still feels like a nightmare..now all i have is pictures and that just makes it even harder to know im not going to get your hugs or kisses anymore or anything..but youll always remain in my heart..i love you grandma..
SO YOUR ONE MONTH HAS PAST..ND CHRISTMAS JUS WASNT THE SAME WITOUT U AND WE WENT OVER TO AUNT MELODYS HOUSE AND ELLA AND BRYANNA MEET I KNOW YOU WERE UP THERE WATCHING THEY PLAYED SO CUTE TOGETHER..I MISS U MORE AND MORE EVERYDAY..I JUST DONT KNOW WHEN ITS GOING TO GET EASIER CAUSE YOU WERENT SUPPOSE TO GO SOO SOON..BUT I START COLLEGE JAN 4 AND IM NOT DOING IT JUST FOR ME BUT YOU TOO CAUSE I KNOW ITS WHAT YUOU WANTED TO SO YOUR MY MOTAVTION..I LOVE AND MISS U SOO MUCH GRANDMA..RIP
HI GRANDMA..I HOPE YOUR DOING GOOD UP THERE WITH GRANDPA AND EVERYONE..IM STARTING COLLEGE TODAY YOU SHOULD BE SO PROUD OF ME CAAUSE I KNOW HOW BAD YOU WANTED ME TO GO..SO IM DOING THIS FOR YOU BUT IF I STRUGGLE I NEED YOUR HELP BUT I KNOW YOU WILL GET ME THREW ALL MY ROUGH MOMENTS THIS YEAR..I MISS U SOO MUCH GOD ITS BEEN WHAT A MONTH AND A HALF AND IT SEEMS LIKE A LIFETIME..BUT ITS KINDA GETTING EASIER BUT ITS STILL SO HARD TO LOOK AT YOUR PICS OR GO THREW MY PHONE AND SEE YOUR NUMBER INTHERE I JUS WANNA PICK IT UP AND CALL YOU BUT I CANT..BUT I HOPE YOU KEEP WATCHING DOWN ON EVERYONE AND ONE DAY WE WILL FLY TOGETHER..I LOVE U SOOOO MUCH
hi grandma..man i have been missing you like crazy..i just thought it would alll get easier as time passed but its still reallly hard..so bunch of us are going to cali in july and i figured since we were planning on taking this trip together ima do things that we both would of done together out there so you better be there with my walking by my side..i love you so much i just wish you were still here.i still want to pick up the phone to call you and so does everyone elsa..im in college now i know something that you would be proud of..its hard but im getting threw it cause i know its something you wanted..but i love and misss you like crazy
so its been awhile since i wrote on here..grandma when i need you the most your not hear..there are so many times i just wsnt to pick up the phone to call you or i just want to get in my car and drive to you..times are so hard right now and i know if i had you here things would be so much easier..not a day goes by i dont think of you..it still feels like a bad dream knowing that your gone..but youll always remain in my heart
happy birthday grandma..sorry im alittle late we just been busy moving..but you stay on my mind grandma i still look at your pictures and think that you are still here..well i know you know we all went to cali in total there was about 14 of us..going to your grave just made it so real that you are really gone but your in a better place is what i keep telling myself..i miss u more and more everyday grandma i love you
My beloved friend and confidant is dearly missed by me along with “Sir Charles” of Escondido, her husband Charlie (Charles) Heffley. Their long,trustworthy and devoted friendship is permeated upon my heart. Many fond memories of a 14 century spent with these dear friends,Chuck and Virginia. I miss Chuck and Virginia’s children and their families as well.
Love to all of you…….Trudy
God loves you and so do I!