Gerald C. Havens, 74, died on September 17, 2021 in his home, with his family by his side. Aviation Storekeeper Master Chief Petty Officer Gerald “Jerry” Havens was a native of Rome, New York. He graduated from Rome Free Academy in June of 1964 and joined the US Navy in July the same year. Attending Naval Training Center (NTC) in Great Lakes, Illinois he went on to attend Aviation Storekeeper “A” school at the Naval Air Technical Training Center (NATTC) in Memphis, Tennessee. Upon graduation he reported to USS Mars (AFS-1), homeported in Yokosuka, Japan. This started his career long affiliation with the country of Japan. He next served with Fleet Air Reconnaissance Squadron ONE (VQ-1) and Commander Fleet Air Western Pacific (COMFAIRWESTPAC) Command, both in Atsugi, Japan. As a First Class Petty Officer he transferred to Naval Air Station, (NAS) Memphis, Tennessee where he spent five years and then transferred to the USS Guam (LPH-9) out of Norfolk, Virginia followed by a duty assignment to Commander Tactical Support Wing ONE (CTSW-1), also in Norfolk. He transferred back to Japan, where he joined the crew of the USS Midway (CV-41), then a quick trip back to Memphis where he attended Human Resource Management Specialist School, with his subsequent tour of duty being with the Human Resource Management Center (HRMC), in Yokosuka, Japan. From there he went to Commander Air Anti Submarine Wing ONE (CVSW-1) in Cecil Field, Florida and then returned to the USS Midway serving with Commander Carrier Air Wing FIVE (CVW-5). Jerry’s next tour was as the Command Master Chief of Naval Communications Station (NAVCOMMSTA) in Yokosuka, Japan, and finally to his last Navy tour as Command Master Chief of Fighter Squadron 21 (VF-21) aboard the USS Independence (CV-62), from which he honorably retired. Command Master Chief Havens completed 29 years of active duty service, with constructive time included amounting to a grand total of 30 years, 3 months, and 4 days of Naval service to our great Country. AKCM CM Havens was awarded the following medals and ribbons during his illustrious military career:
Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal (Three Awards), Navy Unit Commendations (Two Awards), Meritorious Unit Commendation (Two Awards), Battle “E”, Good Conduct Medal (Seven Awards), Navy Expeditionary Medal (Three Awards), National Defense Service Medal (Two Awards), Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal (Two Awards), Vietnam Service Medal (With Seven Campaign Stars), Southwest Asia Service Medal (Two Awards), Sea Service Deployment Ribbon (Six Awards), Navy and Marine Corps Overseas Service Ribbon (Six Awards), Vietnam Cross of Gallantry (With Palm and Frame for Unit Citation), and the Vietnam Campaign Medal (With Service Period Device).
Jerry commenced his second career in civil service, working in Family Programs for the Navy and for the Army, from which he retired on March 30, 2015, having accumulated 52 years of military and civilian service, the majority of which was in Japan. Throughout his civil service career Jerry received numerous awards such as the Commander’s Award for Civilian Service Medal from the Department of the Army and the Meritorious Civilian Service Medal from the Department of the Navy but his most valued award was the Civilian of the Year Award he received from the Fleet Family Support Center (FFSC) in Sasebo, Japan.
To everyone that knew Jerry Havens he was undeniably an extraordinary man. An individual who excelled in both his military and civilian careers. As a former Fleet Family Support Center employee, he welcomed families arriving in Japan and helped them adjust to overseas living. Jerry was there to welcome them with a warm smile and put them at ease as they transitioned to life in Japan. He always made sure they were well taken care of and even had his own column in the weekly newspapers in Atsugi and Sasebo called “Living in Japan”. Jerry wrote about different Japanese traditions and events for those who were adjusting to their new life overseas. It helped connect and show comfort to those who have come and gone with the military lifestyle. He loved to help others as it was his true calling and passion and was always ready to volunteer around the community if anything was needed.
Jerry was an old-fashioned man with old fashioned values who enjoyed the simpler things in life. He was a very well-spoken individual who had a certain warmth about him that drew people towards him. He had a presence that would light up a room whenever he walked in. He was loved and welcomed by everyone, always showing others what it was to be a kindhearted person. A gentleman you could look up to, call a husband, a father, a grandfather, a friend, a shipmate, and even a hero. If you knew Jerry, then you knew his wife Rose. They were an inseparable couple that were always on the move, and if you saw one the other was not far behind. From traveling around the world, to volunteering with diverse groups in the base community, they were always together. Rose was the flame that always made Jerry feel young and alive. When they were together, they were invincible. Hand in hand taking on whatever life challenges came their way, they were truly made for one another, complimenting each other perfectly.
Jerry is survived by his loving wife of 33 years, Rose Gutierrez, originally of Pinabacdao, Samar in the Philippines. Jerry is also survived by his three wonderful kids, two from his first marriage to Akemi Hosaka, and one from his beloved wife Rose Gutierrez. His oldest, Howard James Havens, a father of five is an incredibly talented and entertaining individual who always brings laughter and amusement and takes care of those around him. He currently lives in Nagoya, Japan with his family. Maria Dorine Piekarski is a very caring and considerate individual, always rising to any occasion showing no signs of weakness. She is a loving mother of five and recently became a grandmother. She currently lives in Dumfries, Virginia. His youngest daughter, Maria Estela Huddleston, was just recently married in May, where Jerry was able to walk her down the aisle and give her away. She is a very kindhearted and creative individual, regularly helping others and offering advice when needed. She currently lives in San Antonio, Texas. Even though Jerry’s list of accomplishments could fill an entire book his main achievement in life was his children.
He was proceeded in death by his father, Howard Havens, mother, Dorothy Havens, sister, Phyllis Krombach, all of Rome, New York and is survived by his brother, Jimmy, his wife, Rose, his three children, ten grandchildren, one great-grandson, and many nieces and nephews. Jerry also had a couple of Shih Tzus named Furby (at separate times of course).
Master Chief Petty Officer Gerald “Jerry” Havens, as you disembark from us, we will remember your love as it leaves lifelong memories behind. While death may leave heartache on everyone you have touched you will always be remembered as hero to many. As we all give you your finale salute, we wish you peace and love on your journey to the stars.
Jerry, you may have scared me the first time we met but am very glad we grew to be friends and family. Fair winds and following seas Command Master Chief (and Dad). I will miss you.
No truth can heal the sorrow you feel from losing someone you love. No words, no sincerity, no condolences, no strength, no kindness, nothing can cure such grief. All we can do is see it through to the very end and hopefully, learn something from it. However what’s learnt will be of little help in facing the next sorrow that comes without warning. But that is okay, because a heavy heart is a full heart. Tis better to have a heart full of love and sorrow for ones lost than empty; for love is the one and only thing we have that transcends time and space, life and death. Love, our word for a divine force not created by us, but found, our greatest discovery. Love, the sharpest spear, and the strongest shield. Love, a sort of tether forever connecting us to one another. Forget not that those who we’ve lost are never truly gone, for death is not the end of life, but simply a part of it. So go… go on and live.. live a dangerously beautiful life filled with everything but regrets. And when your time comes, I pray you leave this world in satiated tranquility; and may your everlasting love be the light that guides you from this life across to the other side and into the warm embrace of all those lost.
Then, finally.. be at eternal peace.
I wrote this awhile ago Banka I’m sorry I never took the chance to let you read it. So many quotes come to mind when I think of you, quotes of love, strength, wisdom. Quotes of attributes you exemplified to me through years of unwavering service and support to a grateful nation and family. “When they’re gone it will hurt, but that hurt will remind you of just how much you love them”. Grief is a powerful emotion one that holds a tight grip on the heart, but love is much more powerful and holds a far tighter grip and so I will forever hold onto that. And through that always hold onto you. I love you, I miss you, Til Valhalla Command Master Chief.
Love, I thank GOD I found you and married you. You are the best asawa ever…. Missing YOU talaga!!!
think about you everyday, dad… you make me want to be a better man, and i thank you.
To My Daddy- I miss you so very much.
Always will..
Xo Mari Ootch
Wow, An amazing life and someone that everyone can be grateful that they were able to know and spend time with. It’s hard to lose someone so important to their family. I can see a lot of his qualities in his daughter Maria who I know well. His legacy will stand the test of time and I’m sure will give the family a lifetime full of beautiful memories.
Pete and Melissa Ball
Jerry, you were a mentor, inspiration, and my wonderful friend since our first meeting at The Family Support Center in Yokosuka, Japan. Since then you and Rose were like a second family for me, my daughter, and visiting family members. You and Rose were some of the best friends ever!! Thank you, Jerry, for always being one of the good guys! Your legacy of kindness and service will always live on!! I’m honored to know that you were my friend!
The only man that I’ve met who could put Alex Trebek out of a job….Anchors Aweigh sir!
My friend! Thank you for always being there for me and for your unwavering support in Japan. It was comforting knowing that if my family and I ever needed you, you would be there. You and Rose are forever part of what is good on my life. You are missed! RIP my friend!
Jerry, you did such a superb job of orientating us to Japan that we quickly fell in Love with the culture and country and stayed for 15/years.. it was such an honor to know you. You will be so missed but never forgotten. ❤️
I had the pleasure of serving with Master Chief Havens onboard the USS Midway CV-41 and NRRF Kami Seya, Japan(NCSTAJAPAN). A great man! May he rest in the Lord’s Eternal Hands.
You may take your place of honor among the few and know you will be remembered for now and evermore. The impact you have left on everyone will allow your memory to never be forgotten. You may now rest easy.