Darrin William DeEsch, 47, of Wesley Chapel, FL died at the Florida Hospital, Wesley Chapel on January 22, 2013. His funeral is 5:00 PM, Sunday, January 27, 2013 at the Grace Family Church 5101 Van Dyke Road, Lutz, FL 33603 with Pastor Dee Colburn to officiate. The family will receive friends at the church from 4:00 PM until service time. The burial will take place on Wednesday, January 30, 2013 at Mt Calvary Cemetery in White Plains, New York.
A native of Allentown, Pennsylvania and a local resident since 2005, when he and the family moved here from Mandeville, Louisiana, he was a sales manager for the NCO Group and a member of Grace Family Church.
He is survived by his wife, Patty DeEsch of Wesley Chapel, Florida; a son, Kyle DeEsch of Wesley Chapel, Florida; a daughter, Kayla DeEsch of Wesley Chapel, Florida; his parents, William and Shirley DeEsch of The Villages, Florida; a brother, Greg DeEsch of Dillon, Colorado; his mother-in-law, Joan Schramm of Bell Camp, Maryland and a aunt of Patty, Betty Ann Murphy of Belcamp, Maryland, sister in law Lynn DiMauro of Fallston, Maryland, many aunts, unckes neices and nephews and a host of friends, church members and fellow employees.
The family requests, that in lieu of flowers, to please make a donation to Patty from the establishment of an educational trust fund for the future education of the children.
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To Shirley Bill and Family
At times like this, its hard to find the words that best convey the many thoughts of sympathy our hearts would like to say, But may it somehow help to know that though our words are few, We both are thinking of you and your family and we both share this loss of yours.
Keeping you always in our hearts, God bless
Peg and Pat
Our sincere sympathy is with you all, Bill and Shirley, who we know and love you and to Patty and the children. God bless you all.
Bob and janice
I am one of Kayla’s teacher and I just wanted you all to know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers at this too difficult time. God bless. Margaret Peacock
Bill,Shirley & family, There are no words to convey our sympathy to you all. You are in our thoughts and prayers to get you through this very difficult time. Bill & Shirley, just know we are here for you at all times. Love you, Curt and Alice
Patty, Kyle, Kayla, Billy & Shirl; All of us are thinking of you from Gee Hollow. So sad to here. Darrin always made us smile and laugh with his infectious spirit. Our Love and Prayers. The Myers’ & Gee’s
Darrin – You were a a good co-worker,friend and family man. You will be missed. Rest in Peace my friend.
To Mr. Darren’s Family:
We worked with him at NCO. He was a wonderful guy. He was a great boss. We are so hurt by the sad news. We want to extend our deepest sympathy
for you in your loss. Hoping too that comfort and peace may come to you.
With love,
The Heileman Family
Patty, please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May Darrin rest in peace Oh Lord, and may the perpetual light shine upon him. I will miss him.
Dar
Bill & Shirley and family. We’re so sorry for your loss. Our Prayers are with you at this difficult time. With deepest sympathy.
Love Lonnie and Niki
Shirley,Bill & Greg Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this very difficult time as you prepare to say “Goodbye” to your beloved son & brother. To Patty, Kayla & Kyle we convey our deepest sympathy to you. Darrin was truly a great man with a great personality and loved his laugh. A great husband and Dad who will be missed by everyone who knew him. Our families back in PA will never forget him. Love & God Bless you all.
Shirley & Bill,
So sorry to hear about the death of your son Darrin. Just want you to know my prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow.
Shirley
Shirley, Bill and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this unbelievably sad time. Our hearts are broken just trying to imagine your pain. Our deepest sympathy.
Love,
Pierrette and Luke
Darrin will truly be missed. My thoughts and condolences are with you.
We feel so fortunate to have had the opportunity to watch Darrin grow from his childhood into such a respected, remarkable man, who proved to be a loving father, husband, son and brother. We will always remember his winning smile, his sense of humor, and his special “rodeo” hat. Our love goes out to each of you.
Dear Patty and family,
We are praying for you and your family since Katie informed us of your loss. Be strong and keep faith in the lord. I stil have Kyle’s picture on my phone. Hug him for me. Katya down the street asks about Kyle often. I pray for your strenth and hope you can manage through the days ahead.
Sincerely,
Joyce and Bob Ryan (Katie’s parents)
Patty, Kayla, and Kyle,
We are all saddened by your loss. Darrin was a wonderful man and father, gifted with an incredible sense of humor. He will be greatly missed!!
The Candelaria Family
Bill, Shirley, and Family
We are so sorry. We have the most wonderful memory of Darrin. He made us laugh till we cried. It was obvious who his parents were.
God bless you and help you get through this difficult time.
Billy and Shirley our hearts are breaking for the both of you. Darren was a wonderful kind and loving son and a remarkable young man.Patti,Kayla And Kyle what a wonderful dad and husband Darren was to you. We will miss his beautiful smile and quick wit. We thank the Lord for letting us know and love Darren. He will be truly missed. All of you are in our prayers.
Bill and Shirley, I can’t begin to imagine how you must feel with the loss you have suffered.
I can only hope that all of our thoughts and prayers help you through this difficult time.
Know that we share your sorrow.
Tony & Pati
Shirley … I’m so very sorry for your loss. I remember your stories about Darrin from our time together at Rodale. My love to you and your family.
Karen
On behalf of my family, our sincerest sympathy to Patty, children, Bill and Shirley and Greg. Darrin was my best friend through Jr. High School with many days spent with your family playing hockey and sleep overs and so many “firsts” in our young lives. Although we only had a few visits together as adults, I’ll never forget what a great friend he was! He will live on in my memories. John
Bill & Shirley and Family. We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Our Deepest Sympathy. God Bless You All. Dennis and Carol.
Billy an Shirley: My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. You were most thoughtful neighbors of my parents and raised a wonderful family. May his wonderful memories live on with his children and in your hearts.
Bill and Shirley,
Our heartfelt condolences to you at this incredibly difficult time. Our thoughts are with you, and hopefully the strength of family and friends will convey you through the difficult days ahead.
So many great memories of Darrin through the years. My sincerest condolences to family and friends.
I went to Jr. High and High School with Darrin. We had lots of fun in homeroom together and I will miss that smile. A beautiful bright light went out when he passed. I am so sorry for your loss. your family will be in my prayers and I hope the support of family and friends will help you in this very sad time.
Shirley, Billy and Family: Our sorrow and prayers are with you during this sad time. May the Lord be with you and give you comfort in your loving memories of Daren. With Our Deepest Sympathy Always Sandy & Ed
My friend I will remember you, think of you, pray for you. And, when another day is through, I’ll still be friends with you. In the face of much adversity, Darrin kept his faith and attacked life with a positive attitude. His love of his wife and family was humbling. I will miss my friend.
Patty and family,
My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Darrin was a wonderful man. His sense of humor made our volleyball season enjoyable. I know he will be missed by your family but also by those of us who considered him a friend.
Love,
Bonnie and Teddi
Shirley,Bill and family…So sorry to hear of Darrin’s passing..it is our loss and Heavens gain ;that is God’s promise to us that we will be together again..but until then I’ll hold you all up in prayer and I pray that you have His peace;the peace that surpasses all understanding..love and hugs Sharon
Patty,
You were so very strong today as you, Kayla and Kyle all shared such wonderful memories and moments. Your singing echoed and touched the hearts of many during the service. You will be in my thoughts and prayers as you get through this very difficult time.
Shirley, Bill and Greg,
Darrin will be greatly missed by everyone. I have such wonderful childhood memories of all of us skiing every weekend, the holiday parties and football seasons. He touched the hearts of many and we will forever cherish our memories and great times!
Love, Michelle
Darrin was a professional and good nature gentleman. Very positive person.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
I am so sorry for your lost, I will continue to pray for you and your family.
Peace, Prayers and Blessings to the entire family.
Darrin will be sorely missed. It was a pleasure to have had the opportunity to work with and know him.
Patty, Kayla, Kyle, Bill and Shirley, Darrin was a great friend and co-worker, you all have my deepest sympathies and condolences. I have so many wonderful memories of our times together in Mandeville playing golf and riding in Orpheus. Having Darrin working with us again was a blessing and I will miss him tremendously. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Bill and Shirley,
Our most sincere sympathy to you and to all your family. You are in our thoughts.
Darrin was so dedicated to his family. He truly was “one of the good ones.” Patty, I hope that as the days pass you are able to find comfort looking at your children, and seeing Darrin and his influence in them. He will never be forgotten. Love you!
Darrin will always be remembered, he was a great man, boss, father and friend. He always knew exactly what to say or do to bring a smile to your face. We were so happy to have him back with his NCO Family and without him in the past,our division would not even exist. He saved our lives with his quick thinking and nothing will every get you down attitude. I will always treasure the memories and time I had with him and will never forget him. Please know Patty that you and the kids are all part of the NCO FIS family. Keli
Shirley and Billy… Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you both as with Darrins family. Stay strong and know that if God brings you to it …He will get you through it. Love and prayers, your cousin Connie and Stan
Dear Billy, Shirley, and family,
We were so very sorry to hear of Darren’s passing. Although we didn’t know him, there is always a common understanding among parents whose children have died. There is no loss as devestating as the loss of a child. One never “gets over” it. One simply learns how to live daily with the loss. Take one day at a time as you travel the road ahead and know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
I’m the clinic assistant at Seven Oaks Elementary and I met Mr. DeEsch a couple times before. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and Kyle and the family. I was so sorry to hear and I pray for your family.
I graduated with Darrin. I remember his smiling face and his laughter. His presence was always overflowing. I pray for strength and comfort for the family, especially his wife and children. I stand in agreement that the children’s schooling will be covered completely. I pray for complete health and security. Isaiah 41:10 Fear not, for I am with you, be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Patty,
I wish I could have spent more time with him when I had met up with him when he came back to NCO just a few months ago. First thing he said to me was “why didn’t you wait for me?” I had just left the month he was hired back. It was great to see him and catch up, he was always a great friend to me. He always had a great story to tell.
My Daddy was the greatest Daddy in the world. I loved him more than money, more than video games, and more than pumpkin pie ice cream. I just wish I had one more day with him so we could do all the things I didn’t get to do with him. It happened so quickly, I had just gotten home from school, I had an awesome day and I was just about to go up to Daddy and tell him all about it but mommy told me to close the garage door and the door behind me. Mommy stopped me then and told me that Daddy –and I was about to say lost his job- but I guessed wrong, so Mommy said that Daddy died and I freaked out. I thought I was dreaming or they were pranking me so I said you’re kidding right, and they said no. I was so sad that Daddy died. I know he was old but I thought he would live longer than this. Over the last few days since Daddy died I’ve been trying to have as normal days as possible. Some people kept asking me questions but I only gave them as little information as I could spare. And that’s why I loved my Daddy and I should have done more with him instead of play video games and watch TV and go out and play with my friends. But now I realize that you put family before your friends. Goodbye, Daddy. I love you.
RIP Daddy. I never thought I would be saying that so soon. You have been taken from us way to early. I thought you would always be there for me at my games and shows cheering me on in the crowd with that smile everyone loved so much. I thought you would be there to watch me graduate from high school and college. I thought you would be there to walk me down the aisle. I thought you would be there to watch me raise your grand kids. But, I guess that’s not how it was suppose to be. And boy, how quickly everything changed. I can’t get over the fact that you passed while you were jogging, trying to get back in ’hockey shape’. You were making smart choices and eating right trying to PREVENT something like this from happening. This isn’t how it was meant to be. You were supposed to grow old with mommy and watch as Kyle and I (I actually said that the right way just for you) grow up and get married. You were supposed to be there and watch as your grand kids grow up. There are so many things that we were supposed to do together. I don’t know what the family is going to do without your huge smile and your cheesy jokes that made everyone role their eyes but laugh. You always managed to put a smile on my face. You said ’you look so much more beautiful when you smile’. I didn’t know that when I said “Goodnight. Love you” that those would be the last words I ever said to you. I just wish I got to say goodbye. Alive. Not just lying in a hospital bed cold and lifeless. They said you went quickly and that you weren’t in pain. Which makes me feel so much better. Part of me wishes you made it until I got to the hospital so I could say goodbye and that I loved you. But I’m glad you didn’t because then you would have suffered and I couldn’t bare to watch that. I know you loved me too. We didn’t say ’I love you’ to each other all the time. But we did show our love for each other. We had a very fun relationship. We always teased each other and that’s how we showed our love for each other. I just can’t comprehend that I’m never going to see you again. I’m still waiting for you to come walking back in from your jog. I know you are still with us. In the past few days you have made that very clear to us in many ways. You made it clear to me the other night that even though you aren’t here, you are never going to stop harassing me. And just know that this is going to go both ways; I will be harassing you, too! When I would hear about a tragedy like this I would always think ’I’m so glad none of that happened to my family. What are the chances something like that would happen to me and my family?’ Well it did. And it is the worst thing that could have happened. I keep talking about saying ’goodbye’ but this isn’t a goodbye. I know you are here with me now as I am reading this and I know you will always be there with me not physically but spiritually. I have to keep telling myself that this happened for a reason. At the time I kept denying it. I kept saying that this wasn’t how it was suppose to be and that your passing was just a mistake. I soon came to my senses and realized how this is all a part of God’s plan. There are so many things that are telling me that this was supposed to happen. This wasn’t an accident at all. I know that this happened to our family for a reason. I guess you are going to tell me that reason when you think I am ready to know. Until than I don’t know what I am going to do. I am so blessed to have had you in my life for the past 15 years. I love you so so so so so much and as much as it pains me right now I know you are in a much better place with Pop Pop, Aunt Debbie, Uncle Tom ect. “Maybe you are needed up there but we’re still unaware as why” -Ed Sheeran. I love you Daddy and goodbye for now. I’ll see you later.
Darrin, when I was just 18 you unexpectedly came into my life. You thought I was cute when you saw me while tailgating. I thank God that your friends gave you a few drinks to give you the courage to walk up to me. I wanted nothing to do with you, you had a live boa constrictor around your neck and gave me the line, “Hi I’m John Denver”. I thought you were an idiot…We met again at a party at your apartment the next week. I saw you walking up the stairs and said to my friend, “hey, there’s John Denver”. You heard me and your friends heard me and although you had no memory of meeting me, (ya they had to give you a few TOO many beers to give you the courage to go up and speak to me), all your friends started to confirm the story and then they had to convince you that you really DID have a snake around your neck since you were afraid of snakes! I will never understand why your friend brought his snake to a tailgating party, but it was meant to be. I didn’t want to have a boyfriend since it was the first weeks of my college life. All your friends kept telling me what a nice guy you were and you finally wore me down. Thank God you were so persistent. You always said you only used one line in your life, and it worked! Within weeks of dating you had me stop and listen to the words of the song Amanda by your favorite band Boston. That is how you told me you loved me and then a soft kiss and the words were spoken by you. I didn’t want a boyfriend… and suddenly I find myself with you and in love. From then on I felt like you would protect me from the world, you were my Superman. On my 21st birthday I broke up with you, because I NEEDED you, and I was petrified to need someone that much. I made my parents promise to never let me marry you. Well, that didn’t last, I cried for 3 months and with each of the 2 serious family issues I immediately called you. You were my Superman after all. We were apart for 9 months but as soon as we spoke the second time we were back together. God had a plan and we were meant to be together. Within months we were engaged. We married and started our life together. We struggled with infertility for 6 years and then finally IVF worked. I miscarried one of the twins, and the doctor said she only had a 10% chance of survival. I don’t know how you kept that from me because we shared everything, but Destiny played its part and our angel face, Kayla, was the start of our family. We still wanted a little boy, and we had to endure many failed adoptions because we were meant to be a “special little boys” mommy and daddy, but we just hadn’t found him yet. When we each saw the photo of Kyle we knew without a doubt he was meant to be our son. Our family was finally complete. We thought we could make it through anything after all we did to create our family. Many many obstacles faced us in our 21 year marriage but we always made it through because we meant our vows, we loved each other more than words can say. We had our own little way of speaking to each other, which the kids thought was crazy, “I WUV YOU” but we were a true partnership, we loved, fought and made up with passion. The circumstances we faced, and then with you getting a job where you worked from home, allowed us to spend a lot of time together the past 10 ½ months, I am so very grateful for that time with you and for the kids to see you more. Your friends in college were right, you were the nicest guy, you helped our extended family beyond what most people would do. You had that sense of humor and personality that everyone who was ever blessed to meet you couldn’t help but to adore you. I don’t believe there is a soul on this earth that didn’t like you. You were such an amazing father, you loved Kayla and Kyle with all your heart. You loved being involved with them whether it was Kayla’s volleyball or just teasing with her, or taking Kyle fishing or playing with him, it was all done with love and passion. The night before you entered heaven we watched a family movie, it was about a man who had 2 children and had lost his wife. The man started dating the boy’s teacher and there was a close up of his ring finger, you turned to me and said, “what is the proper etiquette when you lose a spouse, how long do you wear the ring?” I said “there is no such thing as proper etiquette, some get remarried and some wear it forever”, I turned to you and said “it all depends on the couple and the relationship and situation”. Darrin, we had a once in a lifetime love, I plan to never stop wearing my wedding rings, you will always be the love of my life and my Superman. ONLY YOU can make this world feel right, and I pray you will always guide me and help me raise the children from heaven. I love you with every fiber of my being and I honestly don’t know how to live without you. I broke up with you because I was afraid I couldn’t live without you, and now that is exactly what I have to do. I WILL figure it out, I have to keep living for the sake of our children whom you loved so deeply. I only hope I can make you proud, I will always be your jellybean, and you will forever be my superman. D, you are my one true love and I will miss you every moment, of every day, for the rest of my life. Te llamo
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