Vicki Ann LaLonde, 54, of Largo, Florida, passed away on March 24, 2011, at Largo Medical Hospital. Her final hours were spent surrounded by her family.
Vicki was born December 6, 1956, in Fairbanks, Alaska, to Oren A and Constance (Maulshagen) Warner and she received her Registerd Nursing Degree from Alfred State University, Alfred. NY
She enjoyed sharing her life with her husband, family, and friends. She also enjoyed nursing and doing crafts.
She is survived by her husband of 32 years, Terry J LaLonde; brother, Robert Warner and sister, Janis Warner;
surviving children: Terry, Chris, Shannon, and Cassie, their spouses and 14 grandchildren.
She is also survived by nieces, nephews, and special friends.
A private memorial was held in her honor by her loving family and close friends; the memorial was held in the comfort of her own home on March 27, 2011.
Mom,
Not a day will go by that I dont think about you. I will love you forever, and I will be seeing you again.
Love you
Cass
I only knew your Mom through you Cassie, but if you are any indication of her life’s work, she was an incredible woman. I share in your time of loss and send much love your way.
Dear Shannon and Family,
We are very sorry to hear that your mom passed away. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dave and Cindy
You are all in our prayers and we are very sorry for your loss. Vicki was a wonderful lady with a great sense of humor that will be very missed.
Mom there will never be a day that goes by that i wont think about you. I am very blessed i got to spend these last 3 yrs with you. i wouldnt of had it any other way. I know that you are in heaven and free of all your pain and suffering and im so very thankful for that. You were an amazing mother and i will cherish every memory that you and i made, Your grandkids miss and love you terribly. I love you so very much. I cannot wait to see you again. Love Always,Shannon
Sis, you always made us laugh, and we will miss you terribly. We Love you and hope you are in the hands of the Lord taking care of others as you took care of us. Love and Miss you
Vicki is and always will be one of the most memorable people you’d meet. Through Shannon she also nurtured, as a good mother does, me. Even if it was at my expense ;) I’ll never enjoy a hot pepper more than the one you gave me Vic. I believe you cried harder laughing at me than I did suffering through eating that thing. I love you you and the incredible family you brought into this world.
Shannon, Cassie, Terry, to all that loved Vickie ….I’m so-so very sorry for your loss.
Vicki is and always will be one of the most memorable people you’d meet. Through Shannon she also nurtured, as a good mother does, me. Even if it was at my expense ;) I’ll never enjoy a hot pepper more than the one you gave me Vic. I believe you cried harder laughing at me than I did suffering through eating that thing. I love you you and the incredible family you brought into this world.
Shannon, Cassie, Terry, to all that loved Vickie ….I’m so-so very sorry for your loss.
Aunt Vicki, you will be missed so much. I wish I would have been able to see you before you passed, but you will always be in my heart. I wish I could have learned how you made those cigarette butts disappear in the hankerchief too. Baffles me to this day. Rest in Peace Vicki! We love you!
Cassie,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I will always treasure the memories of your Mom, the times we spent at the ball field, soccer field and at our homes sharing you girls. Please feel our love in your heart. Mama T
Vicki, I just feel so lucky to have known you. You were an amazing person full of energy and love. You will be greatly missed!! I love you!! Tara
you were well loved and well cherished…thank you Terry for brining such an amazing woman into our lives…we are all the richer for it…we will miss her soooooo much xo
We will miss you so much our
little girl. You were the daughter I never had & you will be in my heart forever.
If only my health was better I could have said my true goodbyes. I know we will meet again someday……
Aunt Vicki there isn’t a day that is going to go by that I won’t think of you. I could have used a good conversation with you yesterday, but I had to be the grown up and take care of the problem myself. Good thing I had Cass to call! I know you you know exactly what I am and who I am talking about. Love and miss you more than you know and I now know there is another angel watching down on us. Please watch over mom, she needs you now more than ever. Till we meet again xoxo
I dream about you, last night it was so real, you threw me a birthday party and the whole family was there. I ran to you and gave you a big hug and told you it was the best birthday, I needed that hug and it was perfect, I miss you like hell
Vicki-though it’s been many years since I’ve seen you and your family – I still think of you! I was so lucky to have met you – hung out at your house with Shannon, sleepovers, movie nights, hanging out in the kitchen with your family! Thank you for those memories. After so many years – to have found Shannon again is very special to me…I hope one day I will be able to reunite with her in person. xoxoxoxoxoxo Christina
Vicki-though it’s been many years since I’ve seen you and your family – I still think of you! I was so lucky to have met you – hung out at your house with Shannon, sleepovers, movie nights, hanging out in the kitchen with your family! Thank you for those memories. After so many years – to have found Shannon again is very special to me…I hope one day I will be able to reunite with her in person. xoxoxoxoxoxo Christina
Mom,
Dad is on his way up here with Chris, and I know it has been really hard for him, especially leaving Shannon and the house. But I promise you I will do all I can for him, so you dont have to worry! I miss you so much and my heart aches everyday for you! I love you so much and I cant wait for the day that I can be in your arms again, until then I will watch out for dad for you! I love you mama!
Mom, I feel so lost and empty, there is so much I wished I could tell you, I needed you more that you ever knew, I wish so much that you were here with me! I love you so much and there is a huge hole is my heart, I cant wait till we meet again. love you so
Cass
Mama,
Tomorrow is mothers day, and its my first mothers day without you. Trust me when I say, I’m hating every min. of it. I don’t know what to do with out you, I know your in heaven, enjoying time with your mom, on this day,but Im selfish like I have always been when it comes to you, and would much rather have you here with me.
There are absolutely no words to explain how much i love and miss you,
I just pray, that Iam doing a good enough job as a mother to make you proud!
I love you mama, and I miss you more than anything in this world!
Till we meet again,
Happy mothers day to the most beautiful ANGEL in heaven!!
I love you mom,
Cass
God looked around his Garden and found an empty place. He then looked down upon his earth and saw your loving face. He put his arms around you and lifted you to rest. His Garden must be beautiful, he always takes the best…
Miss you every day…
I love you
xoxo
your baby
Just wanted you to know you have been on my mind nonstop lately and I love and miss you so so much mama, I wish you were here.
*****Thanks for the joy that you’ve given me
I want you to know i believe in your song
rhythm rhyme in harmony
You helped me along, you’re makin me strong
Ohh give me the beat boys and free my soul
I wanna get lost in your rock n’ roll
And drift away
Give me the beat boy and free my soul
I wanna get lost in your rock n’ roll
And drift away
Ohh give me the beat boys and free my soul
I wanna get lost in your rock n’ roll
And drift away
Give me the beat boy and free my soul
I wanna get lost in your rock n’ roll
And drift away******
I carry your heart in my heart!! Love you mama
Happy 4th f July mom, hope you had the best view of the fireworks from heaven. I did ok all day until now, I miss you so much!
I remember how much you loved fireworks! I miss you today, tomorrow and forever!
Love you mom
I wish Heaven had a phone so I could hear your voice again.. Thought of you today, but that is nothing new. Thought about you yesterday, and days before that too. I think of you in silence, I often speak your name. All I have are memories and a picture in a frame. Your memory is a keepsake, from which I’ll never part. God has you in his arms.. I have you in my heart… xoxoxo your little one
Well mom your granddaughter turns 1 today. We had a great party for her yesterday, but there was a huge missing link in that day, and it was you! I wish so much that you could have met her, mom she is beautiful and Im so proud of her. It breaks my heart, that Ill never see you with her. I hope that you know that I thought of you all day yesterday, and cried myself to sleep knowing that Amelia will never meet her grandma. But I love you and Ill do the best I can for them as you did for us!! I love you mom Ill be seeing you
Helo my beautiful Wife. It has been 5 months since God took you up to Him.He took away all your pain and sorrow. I miss you every minute of every day. But I also know that you are watching over me and always with me. We will be together again some day and it will be for eternity. ALL MY LOVE Till the 12th of Never.Your Husband Forever Terry
Hey mom,
everything has changed. and I wish so much that I could call you. even though the last few years were bumpy for us, when ever I need to talk to you about something or needed to vent, you were always there for me to listen and give advice!! I sure could use that now!! You were the glue to our family and with out you now it seems all wrong!! I want you here and I miss you so much!! Life is just not fair!! I want my MOM back!!!!!
I’m missing you mom!! I love you so much. I hope you know that!
My darling wife, it is 6 months ago today that our life as 1 ended. My tears flow daily and my pain and grief is ever present. I miss and LOVE my with my whole heart and soul Vicki.Being here alone without you is very hard.I know you are at peace and with our God.Someday, i don’t know when, we WILL be together again so until then. All my Love
Till the 12th of never
Your husband forever
Terry
Mom,
its been half a year sense you were taking from my life. and still every time I speek your name out loud I choke up with tears. There’s so much that I want to thank you for and tell you how much I appreciate and love you for. But I can only do that in my mind now.. And I pray to who ever it is up stairs that you hear me. I love You and I feel way too young to live my life with out a mother to share and confined in!!! I really love you mom, and It seems surreal that your not here. I honestly pick up the phone daily expecting to hear your voice and I know its not there!! I just hope that you know how much I have loved and continue to love you mom!!! I miss you every day of my life!! Till we meet again,
Your baby,
Cass
Mom I could really use you now…. dont no whats wrong with me, but I feel like every where i turn Im messing up! I sure do wish I could talk to you! need you now more than ever….
Happy birthday mom, I miss you so much and i wish that you were here, I would have had something up my sleeve for you today, I always tried to do something special for you because I loved and still love you so much!!
Want you to know I plan on hanging out with dad all day, as I know we are going to need to keep each other busy on this day!! I love you and I hope you know I think about everyday!! I miss you mom , Happy birthday beautiful angel!! Your little girl
Hey mom,
Well its Christmas eve. and i wanted you to now its been 9 months sense I heard you say my name. And god do I miss that!! I miss you so damn much my heart aches all the time for you!! today was the first time I listen to the Christmas book you made for the kids. It broke my heart to hear it. But mom, Im so happy I have it now. Thank you so much.. I will keep it until the day I die, and Im with you again. its amazing to hear your voice, its so precious and Im so grateful I have it with me. I miss you so much. and i pray that you hear me talking to you!!! Love you mama!!! Merry Christmas!!
Forever your litte one!
I love you
Hey mom,
Tomorrow is my birthday and can you believe that your youngest is turning 30? Its so crazy.
I remember my 16th bday you let me have a keg party, and invite the whole girls basketball team, for my 18th birthday you let me get a tattoo, for my 21st birthday you took me to a male strip club. You would call me every birthday and sign to me, and I took that for granted because, thats all Im wishing for this birthday is to hear your voice again on that phone!!!
I miss you mom!
I love you,
you were the perfect mom for me!!
Hi My Loving Wife,just a quick note to see if this takes. I love you with my whole heart and soul and I cry every day for you.
Till the 12th of Never Vicki
My Darling wife of 32 years I miss and Love you so much words can’t express. It was 10 months ago today that God took you away from me to Him. My life is very lonely without you Vic.It seems like yesterday that you left me. The tears come every day. All it takes is to think of you and our life. I never once thought about being here without you.We both just lived life together and loved life. So to my Bride
ALL MY LOVE , TILL THE 12TH OF NEVER,I ’LL BE LOVING YOU. GOODNIGHT MY LOVE
Well my Darling it has been 11 months today that You went to God. I miss you everyday and my mind goes to you daily. You will never be forgotten Vicki. We had such a terrific life and raised a great family. You and I lived our life to the fullest and had so many wonderful times together. Thank you for 32 GREAT years my Darling. So until we are together again Goodnight my Bride. Until the 12th of Never I’ll be loving You. Your Husband Forever Terry
Its been exactly 1 year sense I have felt you in my arms, sense I heard your voice sense I have seen your eyes, and still today I yearn for all of those,
This year has been extremely difficult for me mainly because I dont have you in my life any more.
I seriously tuck your grand babies in every night and at the end of their prays, we say ” and please god make sure my grandmas in heaven are happy”
All I have is faith that your there watching over us and waiting for us to be with you again!!
Mom I miss you so much, Im afraid that you will never know, that I had never express how much I needed you.
You were the rock of our family and without you, its seems all wrong,
I miss you more than words could ever say,
Please be there waiting for me when its my time to be with you again, because i could not do it with out you!
I love you so much mom…
Till the day we meet again,
I will forever be your little girl!!!
xoxox
Cass
Helo my Darling Wife,it has now been one year since you left me. I know God called you to Him to ease your pain and suffering. I also know you are in heaven making a place for us to be together again.That day will come and we will know more Love than we ever had here on earth. It has been and tough year here without you Vicki. If it wasn’t for Chris and Cassie I don’t think I would have made it. I sure don’t know where I would have wound up without them. I miss your touch,your smile, your voice so terribly much but my Love for you continues to grow each and every day. So my Bride wait for me and I will come to you for eternity.All My Love, Till the 12th of Never I’ll be Loving YOU. Your Husband Forever
I miss you
wish you were here
Hey mom,
Chris retired yesterday from the Army, Dad Jon and I were there for him. I know you would have been there if you were here. It was hard but I was able to keep it together! I almost lost it a few times, because I was so proud of him, we joked saying that if you were there you would have been a mess.
Made me think of all the time we would bring Chris to the airport after his leave and You and I would always cry. It was a very emotional day.
I gave Chris your angel pin to wear while he received the papers so he could have you with him! I told him I know you would have been proud of him!
I love you so much mom, and these family times we do have now are very special but are missing you for sure!! I love you so much and hope you know that!!
Miss you, Ill be talking to you soon
xoxo
Hey Mom, Its been a while since I have visited this site. Everyday I think of you and miss you so very much. The kids are getting so big and you would be so proud of them. We were just talking about you playing baseball with them. We have so many memories of the three years we go to spend with you in Florida. I wish it didnt end so quickly, my heart still breaks. I love you and miss you. Love, Shannon
Thanks for the visit in my dream, you must have known I needed a hug! miss you soooooo much
Making Gozo’s for dinner tonight dad is coming over :) thinking of you today and everyday!
miss you
Dear Mom,
If only i could talk to you in person. So much is changing and I wish we could talk. My Dad and Pamela are leaving Texas in the morning and heading up north to be closer to me. They understand how much i need the extra help. There are days when I cannot even get out of bed. The doctors have finally figured out whats wrong with me. I have Pots and basically it is where my blood vessels dialate abnormally, so the blood goes to my feet, instead of my heart and brain. This is why i pass out on a regular basis. It is a chronic fatigue disease and will only get worse, can be debilating at times. Im very happy that they are coming, but a piece of me feels like im betraying you in some way. IT will be a relief for tj not to have to worry about me all the time, and he can go to work not wondering if i have hit my head or what not. Mason and Alexandria are going back to school next week. They are getting so big. There hearts are still broken that you are not here with us, we talk about you all the time and all the fun we had in Florida with you. I love you mom, and you are the only mom i will ever have, I hope you understand that just because Dad and Pamela are coming they can never replace what you and I shared. Cant wait to see your smiling face and hear that laugh again. Love always, Shannon
thinking about you and missing u! wish I had you here with me!!
How do I fix this? Should I even fix it? I wish you were here,
Missing you like always, actually had a min. today when I was like wow haven’t talked to mom in a while I should call her… HA, snapped out of that fast, if only heaven had a phone! love u mom
happy birthday mom, i KNOW ITS A DAY LATE BUT i WAS KIND A MESS YESTERDAY AND DIDNT GET ON HER, i CELBRATED FOR YOU THOUGH, wE BOUGHT YOU A DOZEN PINK ROSES AND BOTH JAY AND i HAVE A BV AND COKE AND SAID HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, I MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY UNTILL I SEE YOU AGAIN ALL MY LOVE
Merry Christmas Mom!!!!! Love you and Miss you too pieces!!!! Best gift was the book that you gave Mason and Alexandria, The night before Christmas. It was amazing to hear your voice. Thank you. xoxoxo. Love you, Shannon
Missing you pretty bad tonight, I wished things were different so badly! You were my rock and I miss that, hope you know how much I love you…. Talk to you soon mom, miss you
Today was a crazy day, Im feeling overwhelmed, I wish I had you to calm me down!! Its coming on two years sense you have left us, and it scares me to think about dad on his own for the rest of his life without you! I worry about him consistently, I get so mad at times that god has taking you away at such a young age!! Its not fair, its not fair that my kids will never know their grandma, that I got robbed of my mother, and that dad has to be alone, without you. I miss you so much and I know I shouldn’t write on here anymore, but I just miss you so much, I should go now before I cry all over the key board! I love you!!
U hit me hard today, was brushing Amelia’s hair after her bath time tonight, and all I could think of was you, I remember being a little girl and u would comb my hair, I hated it at first and then I loved it!! I wish so much u were here and I get sad all the time still all the memories we should be making together with the kids, I just hope u know how much I miss u every day, and think of u all the time, miss u mom more than u will ever know
Xoxo
Me
I love you!!!
My dearest wife, i am still here thinking of you and missing you every day. Life is not easy without you Vic. You were always there to push me forward.And to hold me up.I love you so much. Always did and always will. Till the 12th of Never
Hey mom,
its been a while sense ive been on here,
we bought that bee gees record you always listen too while I was growing up and every word of every song reminds me of you!
I miss you so much and I wish you were here seeing your grand babies grow up! They are really something!
I think of you all the time, and i hope and wish all the time I get to see you again!!
I love you mama!!
ur little one
Hey Mom
thought of you a lot today, I was in the store picking up something for dads birthday today and I saw a book called I love you little one! Floods of memories of you saying that to me rushed over me! I still think and miss you all the time!! Love you mom!
Today was dads 66th birthday and I know he wished you were with him to celebrate! But me and my family tried to make it special for him!! We love you mom and miss you every day!
xoxox
your little one
Hi Honey, I love and miss you so very much. It is Christmas of 2013 and I am here with Chris in NC. This March you have been gone three years and that seems impossible. Day after day goes by and I live my life without you which is very hard to do. Life sure isn’t fair cus we should be sharing these days together. Well honey as long as I’m alive I will Love you and have you in my mind
Hi My beautiful wife, just a note to say I have been thinking of You a lot lately.I miss you honey so very much. My life is so empty without You, even after 3 years.My love for you is so strong. All the kids talk to me everyday and keep a eye on me. We had 32 great years and I wish we could have had more but death comes to all of us. I will write again soon my Love. Until The 12th of Never I’ll be Loving You
my darling wife, I miss you soo much. We had a terrific life and I still tear up when I think back on our time together. You are always on my mind and my love for you is strong as ever. Till the 12th of never. I love you Vicki.
My darling wife, can’t believe its coming up on 5 years since you passed.I try to be strong but without you life is so much harder. You are always on my mind Vic. I think of our life together in Alaska and then NY and then Fl. those years together were the best of my life. I will carry those memories with me forever.I love you so very much and miss you not being in my life. till
the 12th of never
I miss you so much, I try to be strong but there are days when a girl just needs her mom,
I miss you and I love you and I can’t wait to see you again!
my love, Happy Birthday, you have been 59 yrs old today.I miss you today as much as I did the day you died.My love for you is strong as ever.I only wish I could have had more time with you.Thank you for a great 32 yrs. All my love. Till the 12th of never.
My darling wife and best friend ever, I miss you with my entire being. Its has been 5 years today since you passed. Vicki my LOVE is strong as ever. Life goes on but just not the same without YOU. All my love Darling, Till the Twelfth of Never Your loving husband
my Darling wife, You are in my thoughts forever. Thank you for all the great memories .They are what keeps me going. All my Love, Till the Twelfth of Never
To My best Friend and Loving Wife. I miss you now, my heart is sad, as time goes by I MISS YOU MORE
All my Love 11/20/2018
Helo my darling, you are the shinning light of my life. We had 32 years together and I wish you were still with me Vic. just a note to tell you I love you.
IN ALL THE WORLD YOU’LL NEVER FIND A LOVE AS TRUE AS MINE.
Forever, till the 12th of Never
My Darling Vicki, it has been 9 years since you passed but I think of you every night I love you so much. My life is very lonely without you. But I have 32 years of great memories. Till the 12th of Never my Love.Your husband forever