Kathleen Louise Wealand, a beloved member of her community, passed away peacefully on October 15, 2025, at the age of 81. Born on January 21, 1944, in West Reading, Pennsylvania, Kathleen touched the lives of many throughout her remarkable journey, leaving behind a legacy of generosity, love, and devotion.
Kathleen was preceded in death by her cherished parents, Charles Henry and Margaret Edith (Gruber) Bensinger. Her memory will forever be cherished by her surviving domestic partner, Elizabeth (Betsy) Ladd; her son, Theodore (Ted) Wealand, Jr.; her brother, David Bensinger, and sister-in-law, Karen Bensinger; her beloved niece, Denise Woodward; her step-daughter, Karen Ladd Finney; and her adored step-grandchildren, Logan Finney and Mia Grainger. Kathleen also leaves behind numerous cousins and friends who will remember her fondly.
A dedicated professional, Kathleen spent 25 years as a restaurant manager at Olive Garden, where her leadership and warm spirit made a lasting impact on both her colleagues and patrons. Her commitment to excellence and her generous nature earned her the love and respect of everyone who had the pleasure of knowing her.
Kathleen was a dedicated member of the King of Peace MCC Church in Pinellas Park, where she actively contributed to her community and formed enduring friendships. Her faith was a guiding light in her life, reflecting her compassion and kindness towards others.
Kathleen lived in Pennsylvania from 1944 until 1981 before moving to sunny Florida, where she embraced the vibrant culture and laid-back lifestyle. Throughout her life, she was known for being very generous and was beloved by all who crossed her path.
Kathleen’s passing follows a courageous battle with an extended illness, but her spirit and the memories she created will live on in the hearts of all who loved her. To honor her memory, donations can be made to the King of Peace MCC at 6085 Park Blvd., Pinellas Park, FL, 33781, or to the American Diabetes Association at P.O. Box 7023, Merrifield, VA, 22116-7023.
Kathleen Louise Wealand will be dearly missed, but her legacy of love, kindness, and generosity will continue to inspire those she leaves behind.
On behalf of the King of Peace Metropolitan Community Church, we extend our deepest sympathies to the family and loved ones of Kathy Wealand. The passing of Kathy is a tremendous loss to our church community, and we grieve alongside all who knew and cherished her.
Cathy’s presence was a blessing—her spirit, her kindness, and her unwavering faith touched many lives. As we mourn, we also lift up Betsy and Kathy’s family in our prayers, asking for comfort, strength, and peace during this difficult time.
May the love of God surround you, and may the memories of Lathy bring light in the days ahead.
With heartfelt prayers,
Rev. Ray and King of Peace Metropolitan Community Church
Kathy was one of our dearest friends here in Florida. Her and Betsy became instant friends even before we moved into the house next door to them. She was so kind, gentle and generous. We will truly miss her and love her forever.
Bless you in peace with lord our savior . Your pain-free .
I have know Kathleen for years ai king of peace MCC . I give blessing to Betty and all family members and friends 🧡 . Love Michael J Register from Burlington north Carolina .
Dear Betsy.
Very well written obituary for your wonderful Kathy. Did she work for Olive Garden here?
We lift you up at this time of loss and grief. Cherish the good memories.
Kathy was one of the sweetest people we both have met. She was such a giving person and always smiling whenever we saw her….either at church (especially at the card signing table) or at David’s office.
She will be missed.
Our love and condolences to Betsy and all the rest of Kathy’s family.
David and Michael
Always a smile & a kind word . We met at KOP long time ago @ that friendship with Kathy & Betsy special. Oh the fun times we had on those cruises .she always could be counted on to be a helping hand at KOP . Your smile will be missed & im sure when you got home the Lord had a salad ready for her . Rest in Peace my friend .🙏
Kathy was a beautiful woman. Loved how she always greeted everyone with a smile and was always available to lend a helping hand. She was truly loved. God bless her and her entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kathy was a wonderful kind person. I will miss her. Prayers for Betsy and family.
To see her was always a joy especially how she would welcome you. My deepest condolences and sympathy – may she now be with the Lord and be without illness. Loved her and you.
I will miss the sweetest person I would see at church. Loved her spunk and sharing laughter. Enjoyed restaurant hopping with her and Betsy. Now you are at peace. Bless her family.
I will always remember the family times we had when I was a kid. Our families would go camping and boating. Aunt Kathy was such a big part of my life as a child. I will forever be grateful for reconnecting a couple years ago. I will miss her but she will be in my heart until we meet again in Heaven.
Dear Betsy I was so sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing. She was such a sweetheart! I remember the time we went on the KOP cruise and spent lots of time together. She and Gladys I’m sure are watching over us. It’s hard to live without them but take it one day at a time. Sending a big hug
Dori
What a light Kathy left behind. A wonderful person with a megawatt smile, she will be missed by all. My condolences to Betsy and her extended family, including her friends at King of Peace. Love to all!