Paul Gene O’bday, age 80, of Wesley chapel, Florida, died March 5th 2024 at the James a Haley Veterans Hospital following an extended illness. On March 24th, 1943 he was born in New London, Connecticut. He was the son of Charles and Harriett Nelson O’bday. On April 27th, 1996 he married the love of his life, Justine, in Stamford Connecticut where they shared 27 years of marriage together traveling and sharing many fond memories together. Survivors include their daughters, Jacqueline Martinez and Karrie Vincent, both from Connecticut, and Melissa Echeandia of New York. Six grandchildren, numerous nieces and nephews, two brothers, Charles O’bday of Connecticut and Robert O’bday of North Carolina, as well as one sister, Kathleen Cellucci of Connecticut.
Paul had several lucrative careers, he drove for Coca-Cola, he loved working for Michael’s garage and towing as a tow truck driver, and his final career was as a maintenance contractor for many many years.
Paul was born and raised in New London, Connecticut, he moved to Montville, Connecticut in the early 1960s, in the 1980s, he moved to Bloomfield, Connecticut. In the 1990s, he moved to Stanford, Connecticut. Then he moved to Tampa, Florida in 2004 and finally ended up in Wesley chapel, Florida in 2006.
All his life he enjoyed umpiring boys and girls baseball games, he was a volunteer fireman, and enjoyed going on cruises despite being an all-around workaholic. Devoting himself to providing for his loved ones. His proudest achievement is serving in the U.S. military as a Marine. He will always be remembered for his exceptional personality and genuinely being himself. He is well known for always putting other people first and looking out for anyone that needed his help. The memories of his kindness will last always in the hearts of those who knew him.
A memorial service will be held in his honor on March 15th, 2024 at 11:00 a.m. located at Veterans Funeral Care 830 North Belcher Road Clearwater Florida 33765. Memorial contributions can be made to James A. Haley Veterans Hospice Care at www.CDCEportal.va.gov
I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Paul. He was a wonderful person and his presence will be greatly missed. Paul had a kind and caring soul, and his memory will live on in our hearts forever.
During this difficult time, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything I can do to support you and your family, please don’t hesitate to reach out. May you find comfort in the love and memories you shared.
With heartfelt condolences,
Shanna
When Paul encouraged me to move close by I thought we would have more time together. Valued his friendship. Will miss his honest evaluations and interesting sense of humor. You were a special couple. Rest in peace Paul.
Paul and Justine were instant friends to my family and I since we moved into their neighborhood in Wesley Chapel. Since then we’ve become like family, spending holidays together, sharing triumphs and tribulations. Paul and I worked together on small projects toward the end of his working days and I cherish the time spent with him, we had fun. Paul escorted our girls to and from the bus stop daily for an entire school year, and spent many hours chatting with them on the back porch. My fiancé Daniel would visit with Paul often, and Paul was always willing to help with any project. We wish that Paul could have stayed with us a while longer, we will miss him dearly and offer our unending support to Justine.
Sorry to see you go, you were a solid fixture for Larkenheath.
Happy travels.
Mark White
Our condolences to Justine and family. Paul was a hard worker and good man.
You are in our prayers during this time of sorrow.
With Our Deepest Sympathy.
Paul was one of the first people I met when I moved to Larkenheath. He was always willing to help, always cracking jokes and a wealth of information. I certainly miss him. My sincere condolences to Justine and his family.
My deepest condolences Justine.
To you Paul, Rest in peace. You have earned it. You were kind, jovial person! You were the epitome of a true neighbor.
You lived by example. Loved your banter when we talked.😉 Enjoy the Dunkin Donuts 🍩 up there my friend!! Thank you for being you and being a wonderful person. Make sure you are there at pearly gates to put a good word for me. . . to let me in.😇 ( I cant wait to hear banter comments)
I lived next to Paul and Justine for a few years in Wesley Chapel. Always enjoyed talking to Paul. His sense of humor was amazing. My days were brightened always by Paul.